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The Groomsmen
Two Groomsmen

Traditionally the groomsmen represented bodyguards for the groom, to protect him during the time leading up to his wedding, ensuring that he marry his bride successfully.  Today, groomsmen are more symbolic but this does not mean that they do not have any duties. 

Like the rest of the wedding party, the groomsmen are usually members of the family or very close and trusted friends but who are old enough to follow an itinerary, hold some responsibility and with whom the groom feels capable and fit to bestow this honour. 

Sometimes the groomsman may receive a gift for his services.  If chosen as a groomsman, be prepared that you will have to set aside a budget for monetary contributions towards your duties.

WEDDING DUTIES
PRE - WEDDING
 
  • Help decide on your groomsmen outfits and ensure correct fitting
  • Will help the Best Man to plan, host and share the cost of the Groom’s shower if applicable and the bachelor party.
  • Provide a contribution towards the wedding gift from the groomsmen
  • Will attend all ceremony and rehearsal dinners
  • The groomsman pays for his own wedding outfit but if the look is very precise, outlandish and particularly requested by the groom, the groom may contribute something towards the cost.
  • Will pay for his own travel expenses to and from the wedding and also accommodation if necessary
  • Helps with the heavy work, transport and loading of decorations, wedding gifts, drinks etc.
  • Helps to decorate the wedding and reception venues
 

WEDDING DAY

  • Arrives early to see that everything is in order and help where necessary
  • Can act as an Usher to meet and greet guests, show them to their seats
  • Stand next to and represent the groom during the ceremony
  • Act as an escort for the bridesmaids down the aisle

RECEPTION

  • Helps guests who have difficulty to get to the reception to find transport
  • Can be seated at the head table if the seating plan allows
  • Will be photographed as part of the wedding party
  • Can mingle with guests to ensure that their needs are met
  • Can dance with the bridesmaids
  • Encourages single men to participate in the catching of the garter
  • Helps decorate the honeymoon car with the bridesmaids
  • Will help to load the later gifts into their mode of transport from the ceremony
  • Ensures that the wedding and reception sites are clean
  • Is responsible for returning any rented formal wear

 

 


 

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