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A little knowledge goes a long way in helping you to prepare for your special day in whatever way you choose to celebrate it.  In Barbados you will come across many different ways to celebrate due to respect for our residents and visitors from overseas. There are different expectations for various ceremonies and also for civil procedures.
A religious ceremony is a very popular and spiritual way to get married.  To some it is the ultimate way, to have your marriage blessed in the eyes of God. 

CHINESE WEDDING
A large part of Chinese wedding customs is seen through its dress which changes to suit the various stages of the event.  In a Chinese wedding, the groom would change his outfit up to once and the bride at least two, sometimes three times, depending of the amount of customs which are included in the wedding. 
The first outfit is traditional dress, the second is western style for the actual service and then the bride will change into an evening gown for the remainder of the traditional rituals.
Another change is possible, if desired, allowing the bride to see the guests off.  
The bride is seen here wearing the two piece style of traditional Chinese wedding dress (Cheongsam) of Southern China , "Qun Gua" which also features the elaborate golden phoenix and dragon. 
* Please note that depending on the sequence the couple decide to conduct their event the changes may be altered, with the first and second outfit in different orders.

THE CHINESE CEREMONY - This is a brief general guide ... Regions may vary.

The ceremony is actually quite straightforward because the main exchange of vows is usually a western style service either church or civil.

  • The dressing of the bride’s hair; this has to be performed by a woman with living parents, husband and children (a good luck woman) who will transform the brides hair into that of a married woman
  • The groom sets out to the bride’s home and is blocked at the door.  A game from ancient times to test how much he cares for his bride.  He will buy his way in with fake money wrapped in envelopes
  • The bride will leave in a car with a red umbrella over her head held by the chief bridesmaid symbolising protection from bad spirits
  • Bride arrives at groom’s family home and performs the tea ceremony where she presents the parents with tea after the couple performs the bows.  This ceremony is the actual ritual which is considered the exchange of vows equivalent for the western society service.  The couple bow with respect to the heaven and earth, the ancestors, their parents and then to each other.  The bride will kneel to the parents as she serves tea with both hands, starting with the most elderly of the parents then proceeding to the rest of the family  Traditionally gifts are given to the bride by everyone who accepts the tea
  • A change of clothing and on to the church or civil venue for the official exchange of vows
  • A change of clothing for the bride and they proceed to the banquet which is the equivalent of western style reception
  • The guests are seen off (the bride can change again for this if she wishes)
 
Traditional Chinese Lantern wedding decor, with the chinese character representing good luck during weddings
Bride is preparing to serve tea wearing the Chinese wedding dress of Northern China, a one-piece (Cheongsam) style "Qi Pao", adorned with elaborate gold and silver decorations

*Please note that certain weddings of various faiths or types, may require another additional ceremony (register office will suffice), to make it legal in western society.  Check with your officiator for confirmation.

 

 

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